He argued what I'm sure a lot of people into bestiality believe: It isn't cruelty or abuse if it's a male dog doing what comes instinctively to that dog. I also told him that when I am sober it makes me fairly uncomfortable and that it exploits the animal involved. I've told him that as long as this remains a fantasy, I won't make an issue of it. Since then, he has brought up this subject when he's inebriated. We continued to watch dog-on-girl porn, which I can't say turned me off, but mainly because it turned him on so much. I was pretty inebriated at the time, and I didn't say much. He was absolutely terrified that I would leave him over this but said he couldn't hide it anymore. Some months ago, when we were both drunk, he 'got up the nerve' to show me some bestiality porn and tell me how much the thought of me with a dog turns him on. I'm a 32-year-old female engaged to a 34-year-old man.